Loss, Change, Uncertainty, Loneliness
It is easy to feel this way right now. The reality is that
in the past 4 months ALL of the closest friends that I have been walking life
with for the past few years have left my life in one way or another. Literally,
every close friend.
And outside of this great loss is the huge disappointment in
my heart of ceratin dreams unrealized. Dreams that necessitate a closure or
refocus. These disappointments of the heart are painful. Disappointment topped
with loneliness is even worse.
I am a planner. I love details and a list and the do’s and
don’ts and what to expect. Change is hard. Really hard.
It is easy in these moments and seasons to feel totally
consumed with sadness. To walk daily with a heavy heart and to question
everything in the world that I have known. It is easy for the lies of the enemy
to enter in and break my confidence with insecurities.
But I am so thankful that Christ is my hope. I am so
thankful to have walked seasons of blessings and storms and have tested and proved
that my Father is faithful. His Word is true. Even when it doesn’t seem like it
or I can’t feel it. He is true.
Philippians 4:8 says, “whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever
is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is worthy of praise- think on
THESE things.”
Reality check! What thoughts are my mind and heart dwelling
on? Am I listening to the Shepherd or to the roaring lion that seeks to devour
me?
Choice. I have a choice. I learned this deep-rooted lesson
back on Tim Team: I have the choice of how I will respond. In every situation
and every thought and every happening in or outside of my control, I have the
choice of how I will respond. I have the choice to dwell in the lies of the
enemy or to cling to the promises of the Almighty.
Yes tears and grieving are there. I am not afraid of my
tears. There is healing and release in them. But I will choose not to be stuck
in them. I will choose to believe Truth that goes beyond circumstance.
God’s promises are all still true even when I don’t feel
like it or see them to be true. His word is true and worthy to stake my life
and my hope on.
My life is not my own. I have been bought with a price. And
the one who has bought me said that He has plans to prosper me and not to harm
me. Plans to give me a hope and a future. Though the sorrow may last for the
night, His joy comes in the morning. His mercies are new every morning.
He gives me grace for today. Enough grace to love others and
live with hope TODAY, even when I don’t know the details of my tomorrow. He has
me here today.
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases,
His mercies never come to an end;
They are new every morning;
Great is your faithfulness.
“The Lord is my portion,” says my soul,
“therefore I will hope in him.”
The Lord is good to those who wait for him,
To the soul who seeks him.
It is good that one should wait quietly
For the salvation of the Lord.”
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Lamentations 3:22-26
I am clinging to these verses. And truly, though this has
been one of the worst weeks, the icing on the cake of loss, I already feel the
Lord restoring my soul. And I praise Him, for His nearness is my good. His
power is made perfect in my weakness. He alone is the strength of my heart and
my portion forever. Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forevermore and He
will NEVER leave me nor forsake me. My heart is strong in the Lord.
Thank you for praying for me. Please continue to do so.
